Thursday, 17 October 2013

TALVI TULEE! (Winter is coming!)




Today it feels like winter. Even if the temperature is +7°C, the sky is white and...snow is in the air...
Weather forecast said that the first snow in south Finland is about to come this weekend. I can't wait.
I love winter...everything turns in white! So magic...so shiny. I love Helsinki under the snow...she looks like a beautiful bride with her pure white dress...

And then...winter = Christmas

Let's see if the weather forecast will be right :)

*waiting for the first snow - mode on*

Monday, 9 September 2013

AUTUMN IS COMING!




Hello people!
Long time since last time I wrote here! I know, sorry...but has been a messy summer! Some worries and troubles but now everything is fine.

In these days in Finland the weather is very nice. Blu sky, sun, cool air and nice temperature. In the evening we already reach +13°C: it's sign that autumn is coming.
I like autumn especially in Finland. Everything turns red and yellow, the so-called "ruska" season create wonderful landscape here!

And soon winter will come! It seems yesterday but soon is Christmas again!

Have a nice week :)

Wednesday, 17 April 2013

CULTURAL CONFLICT AND DIFFICULTIES IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY



Finland is a wonderful Country. Daily life in harmony with the Nature make this Country a real piece of Heaven on earth.
But there are difficulties for foreigners who wanna set up their New Life here.

N.1 Cultural Conflict.
I can't describe them one by one, but generally we can consider into a "cultural conflict" all the differences with our own Country in reference to: Geographical position, History, Language, Mentality, Education, Style of life.
It was hard in the beginning to match these aspects in my relationship with my finnish boyfriend.
And let me add, that you need a solid relationship and strong feeling, for go over that.
Only a deep "listening-understanding" mode, can clarify and make possible a good relationship avoiding misunderstoods.
For relationship I mean every form of those, not only being a couple. With friends, collegues, people in general, you need to be wide open to the "listening-understanding" mode and to be ready to the possible and potential misunderstood.
Finnish people can sound too silent, closed and even asocial. Genuinely I think they are just shy and, I have to admit, in some case suspicious.
I don't wanna extend this case to the "finding-a-job" field right now, but for sure it concerns the daily life.

N.2 Difficulties
If you move to Finland with will, optimism, open mind and with no high expectation, the ONLY - or maybe we can even say "THE" - problem is the language.
You can easily manage with English in every situation, but if you want a job YOU MUST SPEAK FINNISH FLUENTLY.
Don't trust the nice advertisments or what they say into their promotional website. I paid severaly this trick :(
If you don't speak finnish, you are completely out from the labour market. Even if you speak excellent English and you have a good resume. Only in few fields they don't take in account your Finnish skills: all the jobs that have something to do with web, graphic, programming, IT (information technology) or if you are a professionist/artist as photographer, stylist, painter, etc.

For me, Professional Accountant and Financial Analyst is quite impossible find a job unless I start to speak (and write...) Finnish fluently. But let me say, that I have a high level doubt that the language is a way for contain the immigration. Sad to say, but if they aren't racist, for sure they have an high prejudice towards foreigner, at least when they have to decide who hire.
This is clear through the job advertisment into the Job Office webpage. A good (and sometimes more than good....) Finnish is required even for a basic job as for example for cleaning. Unbelievable but true: they expect you speak fluent Finnish even for washing stairs in the middle of the night or early in the morning.
Well...even if the European Constitution,  BAN the discrimination for "Nationality", they seem don't care about it.

This is the only NEGATIVE point of living in Finland.

Because getting a job is extremely important, since put you in a condition to be treated with equality (even if for the EU citizens should be obvious by the rights given from the EU Constitution), you will be registered under the finnish social security and make strong your position fot to be considered resident permanently in Finland.

The advice I feel to give for people who want to move here is: It's very difficult, almost impossible, (unless you come here and work as professionist or set up your own business) get a job if you don't speak a good Finnish :( The treatment it's hard even for EU citizens.
Move here only after you have a good knowledge of the language, or if you have already got a job.

As I said, there are some field where Finnish skills (at least in the beginning) is not required or fields in which they will provide you a training. But for all the rest it's very very hard.

But never give up! Work hard and fingers crossed!

SUOMEN KURSSI

Menin suomen kurssille!!!

Well yeah...from February 2012 to January 2013 I attended a Finnish Course in a private finnish school.
It was nice! I met a lot of new friends form other Countries and...I learnt "suomi"! Now I'm able to understand, read, write and talk in finnish...but of course in a very basic level. Finnish language it's very difficult to study and learn, because it haven't any similarity with the other languages. Some Estonian people say that they find Finnish similar to Estonian, but I think they refer to the similar sound of some words. The grammatical structure and the conceptual construction of the sentences, turn Finnish language in one of the most difficult language ever.
Personally, I found Finnish very similar - in a way - to the Latin. And it could be a correct intuition since Mikael Agricola, the "inventor" of the Finnish language, was a theologian, so then very close to the "international church language" which, at the time, was the Latin indeed.
Hystorical notions at side, it was really hard but I can feel satisfied at the end of my studies and proud of my score. B1.1 level. The highest possible, because the final score for this school is A2.2.
Teachers told me that, at the end of this kind of course, that it lasts 11 month, only few students from all the courses in that school go out with the B1.1. Onnea minulle!

How I said, I met nice people in this course. Some of them are my friends now. They come from China, Nepal, Philippines Islands, Greece, Vietnam, Ghana, Egypt, Russia, Hungary, Turkey, Estonia, Kosovo.

Nice people with high level Education who left their own Countries (and families) trying to find a better life here in Finland.

Good luck dear friends!



I FELL IN LOVE...


No niin...se tapahtui. Olen rakastunut.

If you could image...

Did you remember my last post? The 28 june 2011 one? And the plan for Thursday? The new funny finnish friend?
Folks...that guy is my boyfriend since almost 2 years! We're been living together since 1 year and a half.
It was crazy, it was completely unbelievable because I would never, ever, imagined that we could end up together as a couple!

Ai mitä? Do you want to know what did happen at the first date? Mmmh...what a curious people!

We met at the central railwaystation early in the afternoon and we spent all the day (till 22.30! and how you already know, in summer, sun light lasts till almost midnight!) at the Teervesaari. He organized a nice pic-nick in this nice island in Helsinki :) It was really a nice day! We spent all the day talking and laughing. He really impressed me. Nice, charming and funny! Incredibly funny!

After that, we went to eat in a finnish restaurant and we spent the rest of the evening/night together, walking in the center, talking, talking, talking, till we fell asleep!

I can't say exactly when I fell in love with him. Maybe immediatly, maybe after a week, maybe little by little.
The only one thing I can say concern the strong feeling of closeness and safety that I felt when he held my hand for the first time.

Since that day...my hand has never stopped being held.

I'M BACK!!!




Hei People, I'm back!!!
I know, I know...I've been away for too long and I'm sorry! But time flys and living in another Country is not that easy. I've been busy with my life and all the rest. I've been happy and depressed. I've been optimistic and hopeless. Anyway, as you can see it was a little bit a mess!

But Ok, I will tell you everything, I promise!

Well...is not easy try to zip 2 years in a couple of posts, but I'll try my best for updating you about...My New  Life in Finland!

Are you ready???

Let's start!!!